My Girl Got a Girlfriend

I kissed a girl and I liked it, Katy Perry sang but it seems this is the case for many women.

While being gay isn’t accepted my mainstream society its more prevalent but accepted well that could be debated, it’s kind of ok if you’re an attractive lesbian. The girl on girl fantasy is everywhere. Countless songs, images, porn (so I’ve heard lol). Many women admit to having fantasies about other women and even acting on those fantasies. They say women are better lovers because women know what women want. So I have this question,

Is being bisexual a trend? Many say they’re experimenting or that they’re really attracted to both sexes. My sister says bisexuality doesn’t exist either you gay or just a freak. I happen to disagree if you will have a relationship with a man and women then you’re bi. If you will have sex with a woman but won’t date her then this just may be a phase in your life.

I surprisingly noticed it seems many men don’t mind if their girl has a girlfriend on the side but there’s usually a catch. He wants to join in but if his girlfriend is a dating a woman who doesn’t like men there is no joining in. Lesbians don’t have sex with men and if she has sex with men she’s not a lesbian- she‘s bi.

I’ve heard all kinds of things on this subject. I have a boy friend but he doesn’t know I sleep with women. I want to surprise my boyfriend with a threesome and that’s it. I’m just exploring right now but I want to marry a man. I would prefer to date women but men pay the bills. I like having sex with women but I want to be with a man because I can’t seem to make a relationship with women work.

Experts have said women’s sexuality is more fluid and that’s the reason why women can love both sexes. This may be true. Many argue that you’re born gay or straight. I don’t feel like sexuality is a rigid as people would make it seem. I thinks there is some sort of fluidity in both men’s and women’s sexuality. I believe in the Kinsey scale. Some of us are on either side as being totally straight or totally gay and the rest of the population lies on that spectrum.

Maybe if this idea was more widely accepted there wouldn’t be a need to exploit images of attractive ‘lesbians.’ People wouldn’t have to hide their sexuality hence being freer. And also we wouldn’t this need to question ones sexuality as being authentic.