I kissed a girl and I liked it, Katy Perry sang but it seems this is the case for many women.
While being gay isn’t accepted my mainstream society its more prevalent but accepted well that could be debated, it’s kind of ok if you’re an attractive lesbian. The girl on girl fantasy is everywhere. Countless songs, images, porn (so I’ve heard lol). Many women admit to having fantasies about other women and even acting on those fantasies. They say women are better lovers because women know what women want. So I have this question,
Is being bisexual a trend? Many say they’re experimenting or that they’re really attracted to both sexes. My sister says bisexuality doesn’t exist either you gay or just a freak. I happen to disagree if you will have a relationship with a man and women then you’re bi. If you will have sex with a woman but won’t date her then this just may be a phase in your life.
I surprisingly noticed it seems many men don’t mind if their girl has a girlfriend on the side but there’s usually a catch. He wants to join in but if his girlfriend is a dating a woman who doesn’t like men there is no joining in. Lesbians don’t have sex with men and if she has sex with men she’s not a lesbian- she‘s bi.
I’ve heard all kinds of things on this subject. I have a boy friend but he doesn’t know I sleep with women. I want to surprise my boyfriend with a threesome and that’s it. I’m just exploring right now but I want to marry a man. I would prefer to date women but men pay the bills. I like having sex with women but I want to be with a man because I can’t seem to make a relationship with women work.
Experts have said women’s sexuality is more fluid and that’s the reason why women can love both sexes. This may be true. Many argue that you’re born gay or straight. I don’t feel like sexuality is a rigid as people would make it seem. I thinks there is some sort of fluidity in both men’s and women’s sexuality. I believe in the Kinsey scale. Some of us are on either side as being totally straight or totally gay and the rest of the population lies on that spectrum.
Maybe if this idea was more widely accepted there wouldn’t be a need to exploit images of attractive ‘lesbians.’ People wouldn’t have to hide their sexuality hence being freer. And also we wouldn’t this need to question ones sexuality as being authentic.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
What the hell happened in 09?
Politics Sex and Food are my three main interests so I chose that as the title for my blog. When I say sex it includes relationships, love, etc. I’m not some sort of freak and that probably depends on who you ask lol.
Since the year is relatively new I’ve decided to do a review of 2009, things that tickled my fancy, made me think or even those things that simply made me shake my damn head. So here goes,
President Barack Obama: the first African American president. Yay! What an accomplishment! Admittedly I didn’t vote because I didn’t feel either candidate would make changes I think should be made despite Obama’s insistence things would change. Has that change come? Well not yet but I remain hopeful. Nonetheless I watched the inauguration like many of you did and I look forward to seeing the ‘changes’ in the future. Go Obama (yes I say that with a slight hint of sarcasm).
Chris Brown and Rihanna. I had to talk about this! Even Oprah was mad! Domestic violence is not okay. Despite its prevalence in many homes especially black homes its not okay. I couldn’t fathom how many black women I heard say Rihanna deserved it or she crazy or I still love you Chris. Yes love the abuser hate the victim that makes sense right? For all of you people that blame victims for their abuse and think Chris should get a free pass because he can dance do the world a favor and jump off a bridge.
Did Lady Gaga not take over this year or what? I totally love her. She’s weird, she’s fun, she’s innovative, open-minded and she’s for the gays. What’s not to love right?
That brings me into another highlight. The National Equality March on Washington for gay rights that occurred on October 11, 2009. I was there so was Lady Gaga. It was my first taste of activism and I loved it. Many of you may not even know this event occurred because many ‘news’ outlets chose ignore 200,000 people marching for gay rights. I could talk all day about how controlled the media really is and how very bias it is but I digress.
Twitter totally took over. Well at least in celebrity world. I don’t have one and I know like two people who do have twitter accounts. I may join though( no sarcasm here). After all who doesn’t want to know what Diddy is doing at 2 am?
Healthcare: Why do republicans feel the need to attack abortion? Why do democrats let them and sometimes join in? It’s legal -get over it. Why shouldn’t we provide healthcare for ‘illegal aliens?’ Let’s face it ‘illegal aliens’ are the hardest working people in America at least we can do is make sure they see the dentist. And while we’re at it can we stop calling people illegal aliens? Considering how many people are failed each year by our current healthcare system would it really get any worse if the government ran it? I feel like either go all the way or leave it alone because so far I don’t see the reform. It looks like business as usual you know insurance companies making all the money while people receive shitty healthcare.
Bank bailout: Bail out the banks and they will loan money and create jobs. Sounds good right? Did that happen? Hell no! Bail out the banks, they don’t loan out money and don’t create new jobs yet they start making money again. So banks get to fuck up the economy, get a bailout then make a profit while not helping anybody but themselves. Hmmm
Music: Drake- We love him right? Justin Beiber got little white girls going crazy. Um the tik tok girl. Susan Boyle-she was huge. Whitney made a comeback or sort of. Mariah Carey made a diss track. The same Mariah who sings about honey and butterflies came at Eminem’s head, clowned him in the video, then made a remix! I love Gucci. Trey came out swinging I guess he really was ready lol Jay z and Alicia had an empire state of mind. I blamed it on the alcohol! A lot. Um there are plenty more but I’m forgetting. Oh wait there was Kanye! I love him. And Lil Mama. Lil Mama was with Martin Luther King yall.
Michael Jackson died! Everybody loves Raymond no Everybody loves Michael Jackson. “Michael was the greatest entertainer in the world!” I love Joe Jackson. MJ stole the summer as far as news is concerned. He broke his own records. See Mike is bad! There was a movie. You have seven year olds with thriller jackets and they know the moves. Grown ass men with tattoos covering their whole torso. I stayed home and watched the funeral, and then I got freaked out when they kept showing his daughters speech over and over again. I watched MJ you tube videos for like forever. Now honestly I was not expecting to see so many people crying their eyes out like Michael was there uncle or something. Michael will always be remembered as the greatest entertainer and a wonderful humanitarian…tear.
Movies: I didn’t really see any last year. I remember 500 days of summer which was pretty good. Obsessed which was ok. Um Precious which was abysmal. I’m blanking here…I haven’t saw Avatar. I saw Julia and Julia. Idk I have to see more movies this year.
There was Octomom. All those damn kids. Jon and Kate plus all those damn kids. Balloon boy…Was 2009 the year for kids?
New York Post and its Obama picture… What’s there to say?
Leave Tiger alone! Pick on Charlie Sheen. Tigers cheats on Elin but Charlie’s whooping ass. I mean he ‘accidentally shot his fiancé’. Well you know people always load, aim and shoot guns by accident right? Shouldn’t the media pick on abusers? They didn’t leave Chris Brown alone. Makes you wonder huh?
I’m pretty sure there are more highlights of the year that I’m leaving off.
On a more personal note. I fell in love. We broke up. I was devastated. I partied in Atl for spring break. I went to my first strip clubs and I’ve been going ever since. I even went for my birthday…good time. I got into an unexpected relationship and I still am, right boo? I experienced a lot of not so good times and looking forward to this year and so far it’s been great.
Look forward to a blog about Haiti and I’m done…
Since the year is relatively new I’ve decided to do a review of 2009, things that tickled my fancy, made me think or even those things that simply made me shake my damn head. So here goes,
President Barack Obama: the first African American president. Yay! What an accomplishment! Admittedly I didn’t vote because I didn’t feel either candidate would make changes I think should be made despite Obama’s insistence things would change. Has that change come? Well not yet but I remain hopeful. Nonetheless I watched the inauguration like many of you did and I look forward to seeing the ‘changes’ in the future. Go Obama (yes I say that with a slight hint of sarcasm).
Chris Brown and Rihanna. I had to talk about this! Even Oprah was mad! Domestic violence is not okay. Despite its prevalence in many homes especially black homes its not okay. I couldn’t fathom how many black women I heard say Rihanna deserved it or she crazy or I still love you Chris. Yes love the abuser hate the victim that makes sense right? For all of you people that blame victims for their abuse and think Chris should get a free pass because he can dance do the world a favor and jump off a bridge.
Did Lady Gaga not take over this year or what? I totally love her. She’s weird, she’s fun, she’s innovative, open-minded and she’s for the gays. What’s not to love right?
That brings me into another highlight. The National Equality March on Washington for gay rights that occurred on October 11, 2009. I was there so was Lady Gaga. It was my first taste of activism and I loved it. Many of you may not even know this event occurred because many ‘news’ outlets chose ignore 200,000 people marching for gay rights. I could talk all day about how controlled the media really is and how very bias it is but I digress.
Twitter totally took over. Well at least in celebrity world. I don’t have one and I know like two people who do have twitter accounts. I may join though( no sarcasm here). After all who doesn’t want to know what Diddy is doing at 2 am?
Healthcare: Why do republicans feel the need to attack abortion? Why do democrats let them and sometimes join in? It’s legal -get over it. Why shouldn’t we provide healthcare for ‘illegal aliens?’ Let’s face it ‘illegal aliens’ are the hardest working people in America at least we can do is make sure they see the dentist. And while we’re at it can we stop calling people illegal aliens? Considering how many people are failed each year by our current healthcare system would it really get any worse if the government ran it? I feel like either go all the way or leave it alone because so far I don’t see the reform. It looks like business as usual you know insurance companies making all the money while people receive shitty healthcare.
Bank bailout: Bail out the banks and they will loan money and create jobs. Sounds good right? Did that happen? Hell no! Bail out the banks, they don’t loan out money and don’t create new jobs yet they start making money again. So banks get to fuck up the economy, get a bailout then make a profit while not helping anybody but themselves. Hmmm
Music: Drake- We love him right? Justin Beiber got little white girls going crazy. Um the tik tok girl. Susan Boyle-she was huge. Whitney made a comeback or sort of. Mariah Carey made a diss track. The same Mariah who sings about honey and butterflies came at Eminem’s head, clowned him in the video, then made a remix! I love Gucci. Trey came out swinging I guess he really was ready lol Jay z and Alicia had an empire state of mind. I blamed it on the alcohol! A lot. Um there are plenty more but I’m forgetting. Oh wait there was Kanye! I love him. And Lil Mama. Lil Mama was with Martin Luther King yall.
Michael Jackson died! Everybody loves Raymond no Everybody loves Michael Jackson. “Michael was the greatest entertainer in the world!” I love Joe Jackson. MJ stole the summer as far as news is concerned. He broke his own records. See Mike is bad! There was a movie. You have seven year olds with thriller jackets and they know the moves. Grown ass men with tattoos covering their whole torso. I stayed home and watched the funeral, and then I got freaked out when they kept showing his daughters speech over and over again. I watched MJ you tube videos for like forever. Now honestly I was not expecting to see so many people crying their eyes out like Michael was there uncle or something. Michael will always be remembered as the greatest entertainer and a wonderful humanitarian…tear.
Movies: I didn’t really see any last year. I remember 500 days of summer which was pretty good. Obsessed which was ok. Um Precious which was abysmal. I’m blanking here…I haven’t saw Avatar. I saw Julia and Julia. Idk I have to see more movies this year.
There was Octomom. All those damn kids. Jon and Kate plus all those damn kids. Balloon boy…Was 2009 the year for kids?
New York Post and its Obama picture… What’s there to say?
Leave Tiger alone! Pick on Charlie Sheen. Tigers cheats on Elin but Charlie’s whooping ass. I mean he ‘accidentally shot his fiancé’. Well you know people always load, aim and shoot guns by accident right? Shouldn’t the media pick on abusers? They didn’t leave Chris Brown alone. Makes you wonder huh?
I’m pretty sure there are more highlights of the year that I’m leaving off.
On a more personal note. I fell in love. We broke up. I was devastated. I partied in Atl for spring break. I went to my first strip clubs and I’ve been going ever since. I even went for my birthday…good time. I got into an unexpected relationship and I still am, right boo? I experienced a lot of not so good times and looking forward to this year and so far it’s been great.
Look forward to a blog about Haiti and I’m done…
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